Rule
Adults only
Gather is for people 18 and older. Do not invite anyone under 18 to a Gather plan. Contact support if you think someone is underage.
Community guidelines
Gather is for safe, real-life plans.
Use public places, be honest about who should come, respect a no, and report anything that feels unsafe.
Rule
Meet safely
Meet in public places when possible, tell someone where you are going, and keep arrival details clear.
Rule
No pressure
No harassment, sexual pressure, hate, threats, spam, or repeated unwanted contact.
Rule
Show up or cancel
If you cannot make it, cancel early so people can make another plan.
Rule
Report or block
Use report and block if someone or a plan feels wrong. Gather should stay comfortable and real.